Reality Show in Valentine’s Day

Today when we were having a test during the class, the boyfriend of a young classmate showed up in the classroom with a bunch of flowers and a paper bag of present.  He went directly to the girl and sat next to her during the class, without any prior communication with our kind tutor.  I sat distantly from that girl and could not see her facial expressions.  She finished the test in only 15 minutes and left with that guy.  After they left, the other ladies screamed and gossiped even though we were having a test.  Most of them were excited with the surprise and said that was sweet. 

Was that really a sweet surprise or just a surprising embarrassment?  May be it was sweet if it happened before or after the class, but never during the class.  Love is sweet if we can make it known to each other.  However, it is corny if we only make it known to some other people. Love is sweet if we can feel the love from each other.  However, it is cheesy if we only show the love to some others.  Anyway, as long as the couple thought that was sweet or thoughtful, how others thought about it was pointless.

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Today, on Valentine’s Day, I would like to share a song with all those who “have been living with a shadow overhead” , “ sleeping with a cloud above the bed” and “lonely for so long” in hope that they can “find a way back into love” , “find someone who can shed some light” and “open your heart to.”

Way Back Into Love

I've been living with a shadow overhead
I've been sleeping with a cloud above my bed
I've been lonely for so long
Trapped in the past, I just can't seem to move on

I've been hiding all my hopes and dreams away
Just in case I ever need them again someday
I've been setting aside time
To clear a little space in the corners of my mind

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love
Oh oh oh

I've been watching but the stars refuse to shine
I've been searching but I just don't see the signs
I know that it's out there
There's got to be something for my soul somewhere

I've been looking for someone to shed some light
Not somebody just to get me through the night

I could use some direction
And I'm open to your suggestions

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love
And if I open my heart again
I guess I'm hoping you'll be there for me in the end
oh, oh, oh, oh, oh

There are moments when I don't know if it's real
Or if anybody feels the way I feel
I need inspiration
Not just another negotiation

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love
And if I open my heart to you
I'm hoping you'll show me what to do
And if you help me to start again
You know that I'll be there for you in the end
oh, oh, oh, oh, oh

對「Music and Lyrics」這部片及「Way Back Into Love」這首歌很感冒。Sophie 跟 Alex透過彼此生命的碰撞，使對方重新找回愛人與被愛的那條路。但兩個人生命的碰撞，只是讓我們看清自己，要如何 「find a way back into love」，那才是困難所在。當我們能夠從心中傷痛中走出來，才能看見自己的盲點，克服心中的障礙，當真愛來臨，才懂得把握與珍惜。但最難最難的，恐怕不是如何找到愛，而是怎樣讓愛能夠延續下去。

大愛這幾句對白：

Sophie :	A melody is like seeing someone for the first time. Physical attraction.  Sex.
Alex :	I so get that.
Sophie :	But then, as you get to know the person, that's the lyrics.  Their story, who they are underneath.  It's the combination of the two that makes it magic.

我想，這就是歌曲之所以能觸動心靈的原因來吧。

在情人節的一天，送上喜愛的歌曲給所有我愛及愛我的人。無論你是有愛、無愛、被愛、懂愛、怕愛、錯愛、等愛、信愛、忘愛、大愛，都要緊記「自己都不愛，怎麼相愛，怎麼可給愛人好處。」、「做甚麼也好，別為著得到讚賞，你要強壯到底，再去替對方設想」，時刻要懂得「慰藉自己」、「愛護自己」，但說到底，最實際都是「好好進睡」。

請不要灰心　你也會有人妒忌　你仰望到太高　貶低的只有自己

別盪失太早　旅遊有太多勝地　你記住你髮膚　會與你慶祝鑽禧

lalala　慰藉自己　開心的東西要專心記起

lalala　愛護自己　是地上拾到的真理

寫這高貴情書　用自言自語　作我的天書

自己都不愛　怎麼相愛　怎麼可給愛人好處

這千斤重情書　在夜闌盡處　如門前大樹　沒有他倚靠　歸家也不必撇雨

請不要哀傷　我會當你是偶像　你要別人憐愛　請安裝一個藥箱

做甚麼也好　別為著得到讚賞　你要強壯到底　再去替對方設想

拋得開手裡玩具　先懂得好好進睡

深古都攀過後　從泥濘重到這不甘心相信的金句

寫這高貴情書　用自言自語　作我的天書

自己都不愛　怎麼相愛　怎麼可給愛人好處

這千斤重情書　在夜闌盡處　如門前大樹　他不可倚靠　歸家也不必撇雨

我要給我　寫這高貴情書　用自言自語　作我的天書

自己都不愛　怎麼相愛　怎麼可給愛人好處

憑著我這千斤重情書　在夜闌盡處　如門前大樹　沒有他倚靠　歸家也不必撇雨