Thursday, 21 April 2011

Eternity and Afterlife



In Season 4 “97 Seconds” episode of “House”, a patient tries to commit-suicide because he believes in the afterlife and thinks he can be there.  He has already been clinically dead and rescued, and while “dead,” he had “experiences” in a beautiful, peaceful afterlife.  The patient says, “The paramedics said I was technically dead for 97 seconds.  It was the best 97 seconds of my life.”  House tells the patient: “Okay, here’s what happened.  Your oxygen-deprived brain shutting down, flooded endorphins, serotonin, and gave you the visions.”

Perhaps we have souls that give us intrinsic value and make our lives meaningful.  Or perhaps it has something to do with the idea that souls are supposed to be immortal and live on in an afterlife.  If there is an afterlife, then this life is meaningful because it’s leading somewhere.


Consider this:

House : If you believe in eternity, then life is irrelevant – the same as a bug is irrelevant in comparison to the universe.

Eve (Patient) : If you don’t believe in eternity, then what you do here is irrelevant.

House : Your acts here are all that matters.

Eve : Then nothing matters.  There’s no ultimate consequences.


The patient expresses the idea that if this is all there is, then what’s the point ?  But for House, if this is all there is, then what we do here is the only thing that matters. 

Yes, House is a jerk but he is brilliant.  I love the philosophical underpinnings of this drama.

Wednesday, 20 April 2011

U型人生 45歲最不快樂

快樂人生

Oh my goodness, why I was touched by these moorhuhn rockers ? I do like the lyrics .....


(經濟日報)2011年4月20日 星期三 06:00
【經濟日報專訊】人生哪一個階段最低潮?最新研究顯示,人生的快樂,像一個U形微笑曲線,快樂感由25歲開始下跌,到45歲是最不快樂的谷底,其後重拾升軌,65歲又重回最快樂人生。
不過這U形理論未必人人適用,有人的確人到中年事業失意,婚姻和家庭問題一齊來;但也有人到中年愈活愈得意,育有4名子女的電視節目主持人鄧梓峰    便說,只覺得愈來愈快樂,「想不出有甚麼事令我跌下去。」
比利時    研究 25歲起快樂漸減
這個U形快樂人生研究由比利時馬斯垂克大學(Maastricht University)一名29經濟學者Bert Van Landeghem進行,訪問了英國    瑞士    德國    3地人,他最新在倫敦    皇家經濟協會公布有關研究。
研究結果顯示,人生快樂程度平均由25歲開始下滑,因為工作和家庭責任愈來愈大,亦開始面對失業和親友生老病死的階段,所以人到中年約45歲,往往是人生最不快樂的谷底。
不過,中年過後,人生的快樂程度又會重新上升。負責研究的Bert Van Landeghem解釋,一般人過50歲後,愈來愈知足,更隨心所欲,且更勇於表達自己的好惡。
但他強調,即使老年愈來愈快樂,但總無法重拾年輕時興奮快樂的心情。
「事業關鍵期 逾40歲求助多」
明愛向晴軒    督導主任郭志英認為,研究結果可理解,亦貼近現實,很多求助個案都是40多歲,「這年紀壓力最大,事業關鍵時期,若升不到職便『唔上唔落』;這年紀通常都上有父母要供養,下有子女要管教,而且是十多歲最反叛時,家庭開支亦大。」不過,48歲的鄧梓峰3年前已度過所謂45歲「低潮期」,但他說一直都幾開心,沒大起大跌,他指:「人生到這年紀,應該有些事業,又有子女,應該都幾happy(快樂)。」
鄧梓峰育有4名子女,其中一對是孖仔,大女已16歲,小兒子亦12歲,「子女也沒有甚麼要擔心,他們較細的時候,也會想不知何時才大,但現都已十多歲,沒甚麼要煩。」他相信快樂之道是順其自然,不要勉強子女要學這樣,學哪樣。
「若說工作壓力,反而是廿多歲的時候,有時工作量較少,會有壓力和失落,那時可能跌過一下。」鄧說。他相信快不快樂視乎性格,人人追求不一,若不純粹追求物質,眼光放遠點,一樣開心,「現在工作量較少的時候,會找些東西學增值自己。」
真的是低處未算低!!!那就期待來個谷底U型反彈,Ho-Ho-Ho,好快就會重拾升軌啦!!!放馬過來啦!!!


Diaper and Bubble Tea

What flavour of bubble tea do you want ?  
Pampers or Huggies ?




Kids, stop sucking those tapioca pearls in the bubble tea.
Never know that our bubble tea craving is related to diaper in this way.

紙尿片原料製珍珠奶茶
(明報)2011420 星期三 05:06
【明報專訊】內地垃圾食品層出不窮,近年興起的水果味珍珠奶茶,充斥深圳    街頭,這種奶茶既無奶也不含茶,含的只是奶精、果粉等各種添加劑,所用假珍珠更是製紙尿片的主要原料
無奶無茶 僅有添加劑
天氣逐漸轉熱,在港人常出沒的東門一帶,售賣這類水果味珍珠奶茶的奶茶店隔幾步就有一間,每杯僅售23元人民幣。
在不大的店裏,一台飲水機、一台封口機,寫著朱古力味、水蜜桃味、葡萄味等字樣的十幾個瓶罐排列櫃台中,幾件簡易的裝備就是奶茶店的全部家當。據業內人士稱,目前街頭售賣的珍珠奶茶,成本最多7毫,「外面標榜的台灣    珍珠奶茶,成分都是奶精和果粉。沒有奶,沒有茶,更沒有果,只有添加劑」。
珍珠奶茶裏的珍珠主材料是木薯澱粉,為了令珍珠更有嚼勁、顏色誘人,於是再添加人工合成的高分子材料膠質,這是製造紙尿片的一種主要原料。上海    海洋大學食品學院教授陳舜勝表示,木薯澱粉能夠被人體吸收的營養成分極小,不適合做食品。至於珍珠中的高分子材料膠質,陳舜勝說,「吃塑料是什麼結果,大家可以想像」 

Tuesday, 19 April 2011

遺物

還陽的物品



今天突然心血來潮,重新查看行李箱一次;竟然發現,尚有少量回港時買的東西殘留在箱內。還陽再世,真的萬幸啦!

Sweet dreams are made of this




終於有覺好瞓啦zzzzzzzzzzzzzz
嘩嘩嘩!!!
今日催眠我的是松武秀樹(Hideki Matsutake、まつたけ ひでき「眠れる夜 あなたに代ってひつじを数えます」!!!
今晚一定好瞓到流口水啦!!!
早抖。謝謝。

Monday, 18 April 2011

I can never befriend with numbers



I told myself I was sick in the last few days.  I hate handling tax returns (plus their mathematical, accounting, financial relatives amid the numerical systems), not even a trivial part of it.

If there were no numbers, I would be a happy person.  The bathroom scale would not depress me.  I would never be late.  Change would not clutter my purse.  My children would not spend a few hundred dollars for Math class every month.  I would enjoy reading more books by saving the time struggling with calculating and counting with fingers and even with toes.  If there were no mathematics, no accounting, no finance, no statistics, no geometry, no calculus, I would definitely look smarter.

I hate you - numbers.

Tuesday, 12 April 2011

Hormone Balance and Imbalance




To share with all my girlfriends some information adapted from an article I took from my family clinic:

Hormones are the chemical messengers that tell the body how it is to function.  Glands in the body produce these hormones, including the hypothalamus (下丘腦), pituitary (大腦垂體), thyroid (甲狀腺), adrenals (腎上腺) and ovaries (卵巢).  When the hormone (endocrine) system becomes imbalanced, various symptoms may become apparent.  These can include fatigue, mood changes, weight gain, pre-mature aging, PMS, insomnia, hot flashes, night sweats, and many others.  Conditions that can be caused by these hormone changes include diabetes, heart disease, breast cancer, obesity, osteoporosis and dementia.

Today the environment is filled with chemicals that act as hormone-like substances.  For example, hormones are often added to our dairy, poultry and meat sources to increase production or growth.  Many women have issues due to the use of synthetic hormones such as birth control pills or hormone replacement.  These chemicals are not exactly the same as the hormones found in nature, and thus have been proven to cause a variety of hormone-related issues including infertility, acne, endometriosis (子宮內膜異位), fibroids (纖維瘤), heightened menopausal symptoms and cancer.

Hormones can become imbalanced at any time in a woman’s life, but it is often most prominent at significant changes of life such as puberty, post childbirth, and peri-menopause.  After periods of extreme stress or illness, hormone levels often fluctuate and can also cause symptoms of hormone imbalance.  The hormones most often disrupted are thyroid, cortisol (皮質醇), estrogens (雌激素), progesterone (黃體酮), testosterone (睪丸素) and DHEA.  The correct treatment for each individual is based on their symptoms and the results of tests that measure these hormones in the blood, saliva and/or urine.

Every woman has a different hormone balance or imbalance, and her hormonal dance changes several times throughout her life.



(By Dr. Karen Parmar – Naturopathic Physician, Integrated Health Clinic)