Monday, 28 February 2011

Acrostic of Music



My son’s favorite singer has been Mariah Carey since 2008.  Ever since then, his squeaking cover of Mariah’s super high notes echoes from the cubicle during every bath-time.  “Oh ohh uhhh ohh ….. Eeeeee……I can’t live….I can’t give….Noo I….No, I can’t live….No, I can’t give….”  Honestly, I can’t stand.




Unbelievable – Do you know what the first distinguishable song that Michael sang was?  It was not “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star” or “Baa, Baa, Black Sheep”, it’s “The Boxer” of Simon and Garfunkel!  Michael chorused “lie la lie” whenever we were listening to “The Boxer” in the car, at the age of 2.  It’s really unbelievable! Do you know every time I suffer from migraine, Michael played Mario’s “Shining Coral”? It relieves my pain, calms my soul and lullabies my eyelids – it works even better than Advil.  It’s really incredible!




Sensations – Whenever he struggles with horrible math or mad science, Justin will stop and relax by playing the guitar or the piano. Whenever he is hurt by emotions, Justin will please himself with pop songs.  Whenever he is nervous or stressful, he chooses to air his tension through humming his favorite rhythms.  




In 1998, at the age of 3, Justin knew how to sing Bee Gees’ songs. In 1999, at the age of 4, he kept singing the songs of Michael Jackson. In 2000, at the age of 5, Madonna became his favorite singer. In 2004 at the age of 9, he played and listened to the songs of the Bangles. In 2006, at the age of 11, Green Day became his favorite band.  In 2007, at the age of 12, he really liked the songs of Avril Lavigne.  Since 2008, Mariah Carey has become his pop idol, and up till now, Justin still loves the songs of Mariah.




Childhood – It happened that Mariah has been Justin’s most favorite comforter and her songs; “Emotions” and “We Belong Together” have been his favorite pacifiers, in his childhood. Awesome!


This is about my son's unbelievable sensations in childhood.

Friday, 25 February 2011

Ukulele & Tearjerker

My son is learning to play the Ukulele at school.  It reminds me the following clip featuring one of my favorite actors, Ryan Gosling. 

 Ryan Gosling's movie, The Notebook, a tearjerker to me

Thursday, 24 February 2011

廿年後有多 $6000 – 你話幾咁好呢﹗


如果我唔係離開香港,我「遠期賬面」上就有多$6000,你話幾咁好呢﹗
如果我廿年後有多$6000,就可紓解家下嘅民困,你話幾咁好呢﹗
如果强積金公司投資給力D,唔會將嗰$6000貶值至-$6000,你話幾咁好呢﹗
如果一個人有6000個强積金戶口,每個都有$6000利是仔,你話幾咁好呢﹗
如果係一次過封封利是比過我,等人即時可以幫補吓抗通賬,你話幾咁好呢﹗
如果大陸善心富豪排隊去香港行善派$$$$$$$$$,你話幾咁好呢﹗
如果通賬咁搞落去,都唔知D人可唔可以捱到65歲,如果到時都可以唔死兼執翻身彩嘅話,你話幾咁好呢﹗
如果屋租、學費、薪俸稅、差餉、水費、電費、電話費,通通都免息廿年後先要你比,你話幾咁好呢﹗

如果 ....... 妖﹗邊得有咁多如果﹗

Wednesday, 23 February 2011

Reflections of my life



Reflections of my life - The Marmalade
生命的回顧   橘子果醬合唱團

The changing
Of sunlight to moonlight  
陽光到月光之間的變幻
Reflections of my life  我生命的倒影
Oh how they fill my eyes  映滿了我的雙眼
The greetings
Of people in trouble  
那些憂愁的人們捎來的問候
Reflections of my life  我生命的倒影
Oh how they fill my eyes  映滿了我的雙眼
All my sorrows
Sad tomorrows  
我所有的煩憂,可悲的明日
Take me back to my own home  帶我回自己的家吧
All my cryings  我所有的哭泣
Feel I'm dying, dying  讓我覺得自己就快死去
Take me back to my own home  帶我回自己的家吧
I'm changing, arranging  我正在改變,重新安排
I'm changing, I'm changing everything  改變一切事物
Oh, everything around me  我身邊的一切事物
The world is a bad place  這個世界是個很糟的地方
A bad place, a terrible place to live 一個可怕的地方
Oh, but I don't wanna die 但我還不想死啊
All my sorrows
Sad tomorrows  
我所有的煩憂,可悲的明日
Take me back to my own home  帶我回自己的家吧
All my cryings  我所有的哭泣
Feel I'm dying, dying  讓我覺得自己就快死去
Take me back to my own home  帶我回自己的家吧
All my sorrows
Sad tomorrows  
我所有的煩憂,可悲的明日
Take me back to my own home  帶我回自己的家吧
All my cryings...   我所有的哭泣

“I'm changing, arranging” 

“I'm changing, I'm changing everything” 
“Oh, everything around me”  

Change doesn’t always come easy.  It takes courage to change.  It is also not always possible to change and arrange everything around us.  Of all our sorrows and all our cryings, definitely there are sad tomorrows but we can also see the sunlight and greetings. 

When you have got into troubles, don’t ever give up.  When you are going through a sad time, always allow yourself to consider the possibility of a brighter future.  I didn’t mean that you have to pretend that everything is fine or that you will have no more adversity.  However, every time when you think that you are dying from your sad yesterdays and sad todays, you will finally find out that you are still alive.  I won’t fool myself that there is panacea for the pain, so I will cry, I will scream and after that I will try very hard not to let my unhappiness dragging me down to the endless cycle of negative feelings, negative behavior and negative living.  So I shop, I cook, I eat, I read, I write, I surf, I chat and I blog.

I don’t like the idea to bury all my sorrows and sad memories. Instead, I like to keepsake it side by side with me as reflections of my life, always reminding me how the pleasure and sweet memories once tasted like.  Every scrap of your memories, happy and sorrow, sweet and bitter, is all precious in making an unique life.

From memory to memory, we can’t predict our future, but it’s going to be a new day.  Let the bright light shines our walk of life. 

Tuesday, 22 February 2011

正月二十之「聾婆」隨心札記

「聾婆」再現江湖
由年尾開始,右耳發炎到現在時好時壞,看過醫生,才知耳朵受感染,弄穿了一個小孔。這正好解釋了,為何最近右耳聽覺不靈,長期處於潛水後耳朵受壓疼痛狀態。弱弱的說句:「各方友好,如要痛駡本人,請好好把握現在!

龍婆

仍然是個謎 蔡楓華事件簿
蔡楓華當年剎那間的言行,與及其後的起跌遭遇,對不是他粉絲的我仍然是個謎。但真心的希望他能振作起來,唱他喜歡的歌給真正喜歡他的人。


這就是傳說中的大學生?

Monday, 21 February 2011

I wanna be a billionaire

Though I have never dreamed of “buying all of the things I never had”, “be on the cover of Forbes magazine” and “smiling next to Oprah and the Queen”, I still “swear the world better prepare for when I’m a billionaire” and it sounds great to “grant somebody their last wish”. 

There is no reason I will feel evil to say “I wanna be a billionaire.” Growing up in a small city where a high-rise apartment right next to waste landfills site costs over a million (CAD) dollars and living in the best city to live in around the world, seeing a huge increase in Metro Vancouver’s unreal real estate price and meeting many millionaires (at least on paper) after a surge to bulldoze perfectly good older houses and build two or three million-dollar-plus houses in Richmond and the west side of Vancouver, I don’t think that it is a “fucking bad” or “fricking bad” idea to be a billionaire but I wanna be a billionaire so fucking bad.





"Billionaire"
(feat. Bruno Mars)

[Bruno Mars]
I wanna be a billionaire so fucking bad
Buy all of the things I never had
Uh, I wanna be on the cover of Forbes magazine
Smiling next to Oprah and the Queen

[Chorus]
Oh every time I close my eyes
I see my name in shining lights
A different city every night oh
I swear the world better prepare
For when I'm a billionaire

[Travis "Travie" McCoy]
Yeah I would have a show like Oprah
I would be the host of everyday Christmas
Give Travie your wish list
I'd probably pull an Angelina and Brad Pitt
And adopt a bunch of babies that ain't never had shit
Give away a few Mercedes like 'Here lady have this'
And last but not least grant somebody their last wish
It's been a couple months since that I've been single so
You can call me Travie Claus minus the Ho Ho
Get it, I'd probably visit where Katrina hit
And damn sure do a lot more than FEMA did
Yeah, can't forget about me, stupid
Everywhere I go, Imma have my own theme music

[Chorus]
Oh every time I close my eyes
I see my name in shining lights
A different city every night oh
I swear the world better prepare
For when I'm a billionaire
Oh oooh oh oooh for when I'm a billionaire
Oh oooh oh oooh for when I'm a billionaire

[Travis "Travie" McCoy]
I'll be playing basketball with the President
Dunking on his delegates
Then I'll compliment him on his political etiquette
Toss a couple milli in the air just for the heck of it
But keep the fives, twenties, tens and bens completely separate
And yeah I'll be in a whole new tax bracket
We in recession but let me take a crack at it
I'll probably take whatever's left and just split it up
So everybody that I love can have a couple bucks
And not a single tummy around me would know what hungry was
Eating good, sleeping soundly
I know we all have a similar dream
Go in your pocket, pull out your wallet
And put it in the air and sing

[Bruno Mars]
I wanna be a billionaire so fucking bad
Buy all of the things I never had
Uh, I wanna be on the cover of Forbes magazine
Smiling next to Oprah and the Queen

[Chorus]

I wanna be a billionaire so fucking bad! 

Sunday, 20 February 2011

During and After + East to West

During today’s mass, we heard the Psalm 103.  Like other Psalms of David, Psalm 103 emphasises God’s loving, parental relationship with human beings.  The Bible reveals God as eager to forgive and full of compassion for those who turn to Him.

Verse says, “as far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us.” 

Why east to west instead of north to south?

It is because going north to south is limited, eventually you will arrive at a point when you are no longer in the north and you can only be said to be in the south.  East to west, on the other hand, is unlimited.  You can always travel west without ever going east. 

God has put an everlasting separation between us and our past transgressions once we ask for His forgiveness.

After the mass we went home. When we stopped at an intersection, the car behind us swerved into our lane. But the driver did not brake soon enough, and his car collided in ours. Fortuitously, the automobile was not gravely damaged, and the passengers were safe and sound. 

Thank you, God.  Thank you for hearing our prayer. 


Psalms 103(102):1-2.3-4.8.10.12-13.
Of David. Bless the LORD, my soul; all my being, bless his holy name!
Bless the LORD, my soul; do not forget all the gifts of God,
Who pardons all your sins, heals all your ills,
Delivers your life from the pit, surrounds you with love and compassion,
Merciful and gracious is the LORD, slow to anger, abounding in kindness.
Has not dealt with us as our sins merit, nor requited us as our deeds deserve.
As far as the east is from the west, so far have our sins been removed from us.
As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on the faithful. 


The Lord is kind and merciful


Lyrics

Refrain
The Lord is kind and merciful.
The Lord is kind and merciful.

Bless the LORD, O my soul;
and all my being, bless his holy name.
Bless the LORD, O my soul,
and forget not all his benefits.

He pardons all your iniquities,
heals all your ills.
He redeems your life from destruction,
crowns you with kindness and compassion.

Merciful and gracious is the LORD,
slow to anger and abounding in kindness.
Not according to our sins does he deal with us,
nor does he requite us according to our crimes.

As far as the east is from the west,
so far has he put our transgressions from us.
As a father has compassion on his children,
so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him
.

Saturday, 19 February 2011

A curse from a mum

Boys, this is really serious.  You MUST finish every single grain of rice in your bowl; or else your future wife will have lots of pimples on her face.  That is why daddy has so many pimples.

豆皮婆有幾可怕?看看這首童謠可知一二:
拍大髀 
拍大髀,唱山歌, 
人人話我冇老婆,扚起心肝娶返個, 
有錢娶個嬌嬌女,冇錢娶個豆皮婆。 
豆皮婆,食飯食得多,屙屎屙兩籮, 
屙尿沖大海,屙屁打銅鑼。

Lunch at Korean restaurant today
食飯食得唔乾淨,第日娶個豆皮婆


Friday, 18 February 2011

元宵2部曲

每逢元宵節,中國人會吃湯圓來應節,象徵一家慶團圓。宋人周必大曾寫過一首《元宵煮浮圓子》詩,開始稱為湯圓:

      今夕是何夕,團圓事事同。
      湯官巡舊味,竈婢詫新功。
      星燦烏雲裏,珠浮濁水中。
      歲時編雜詠,附此說家風。

今天在家做了芝蔴湯圓,賣相就有點雷人,但味道不俗。但願「一碗湯圓滿又滿,吃了湯圓好團圓」。


元宵1部曲


元宵節是我國民間最隆重的節日之一,民間「正月十五鬧
元宵」,在我國已有悠久的歷史。元宵節始於二千多年前
的漢代。漢高祖劉邦死後,呂后篡權。呂后死後,漢文帝
劉恒在周勃、陳平等人鏟除諸呂勢力後,登基做了皇帝。
因為戡平諸呂的日子是正月十五日,所以,每逢這天晚上
,漢文帝都要微服出宮,到街上遊玩,「與民同樂」以示
紀念。在古代,夜同宵,正月又稱元月,於是,漢文帝就
將正月十五定為元宵節。


在這個元宵佳節,「行行」的說句:


  願有情人可終成屬,
  無情人就繼續揾節目。

每逢元宵節,不少地方都會舉辦元宵燈會、猜燈謎等

 
先來猜猜元宵燈謎:
1.
一對夫妻,同命相依,白天結合,晚上分離。 猜一物 
2.
姊妹一樣長,出入都成雙,酸甜苦辣味,他們總先嚐。 
猜用具
3.
有時落在山腰,有時掛在樹梢,有時像面圓鏡,有時像
把鐮刀。 猜自然物

17/2/2011

歇歇、笑笑、睡睡

朋友C病了,知她喜歡潘源良的詞,隨禱告遙送上一個視頻。來笑一個:


其實我比較喜歡這一個多一些:



驚艷的不是陳寶蓮的身材、亦不是周禮茂的詞,而是周星星秒殺的演繹。

祝大家身體健康。





 

Wednesday, 16 February 2011

請骷髏頭堡賜我窩心桂園藍棗愛心茶

最近數天感覺頭昏、乏力、無神,下午亦無力往學校接孩子放學。在卧床補眠矇朧間,依稀感覺到孩子回到家中,但孩子父親卻再開車出去。原來是買回兩包桂園及藍棗。

桂園及藍棗

紅棗、龍眼肉煲水飲用可安神補心、養血補脾,我是知道的,亦有煲過。但我嫌紅棗的味道帶酸,不太喜歡那種味道,所以不常飲。今天,改用了藍棗,帶甜的味道正合我口胃。真的,我不知道可用藍棗,亦不知道有甚麼功效;但甜甜可口的桂園藍棗茶肯定會窩我心、暖我胃。

請骷髏頭堡賜我力量

我已經充滿力量啦﹗


謝謝你﹗

情書x2


情書@1

在互聯網的高速E世代,雖然每天耗在屏幕鍵盤手機的分秒多於一切,我仍然無恥地認定手寫情書最動人。這個年頭,手寫情書雖不至於絕版,但肯定不是大眾傳情達意的王道。


一封手寫情書,字體可能殊不秀麗,文采亦未必夠火候感動到你撕心裂肺、死去活來。但手寫情書之所以令人動容難忘,就貴乎那份誠意。相比冰冷的鍵盤屏幕敲來,一字一筆道來的情意,好像尚存寫信者的餘温氣味,而筆尖的字痕,就彷彿感覺到對方的觸感和期待。

情書@2

經典即是經典。今天即興重温日本電影《情書》,唯美又傷感得令我再次感動到掉淚。最難忘是結尾的一場,博子跌跌撞撞地奔跑在雪地上,向著遠處的山峰大叫:「你………..嗎?我….….好﹗你…..…..嗎?我….…..好﹗」最後看著她淚流滿臉,回音聲逐漸變得模糊。看著看著演男藤井樹的柏原崇當時的俊美模樣,再想想他現在的大叔殘樣,就彷彿呼應了片中那本關鍵的書《似水年華的回憶》,訴說著大家心中有過的回憶。




Monday, 14 February 2011

사랑해요


Today, on Valentine’s Day, I would like to share a song with all those who “have been living with a shadow overhead” , “ sleeping with a cloud above the bed” and “lonely for so long” in hope that they can “find a way back into love” , “find someone who can shed some light” and “open your heart to.”





Way Back Into Love

I've been living with a shadow overhead
I've been sleeping with a cloud above my bed
I've been lonely for so long
Trapped in the past, I just can't seem to move on
I've been hiding all my hopes and dreams away
Just in case I ever need them again someday
I've been setting aside time
To clear a little space in the corners of my mind
All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love
Oh oh oh
I've been watching but the stars refuse to shine
I've been searching but I just don't see the signs
I know that it's out there
There's got to be something for my soul somewhere
I've been looking for someone to shed some light
Not somebody just to get me through the night
I could use some direction
And I'm open to your suggestions
All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love
And if I open my heart again
I guess I'm hoping you'll be there for me in the end
oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
There are moments when I don't know if it's real
Or if anybody feels the way I feel
I need inspiration
Not just another negotiation
All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love
And if I open my heart to you
I'm hoping you'll show me what to do
And if you help me to start again
You know that I'll be there for you in the end
oh, oh, oh, oh, oh

對「Music and Lyrics」這部片及Way Back Into Love」這首歌很感冒。Sophie Alex透過彼此生命的碰撞,使對方重新找回愛人與被愛的那條路。但兩個人生命的碰撞,只是讓我們看清自己,要如何 find a way back into love」,那才是困難所在。當我們能夠從心中傷痛中走出來,才能看見自己的盲點,克服心中的障礙,當真愛來臨,才懂得把握與珍惜。但最難最難的,恐怕不是如何找到愛,而是怎樣讓愛能夠延續下去。

大愛這幾句對白:


Sophie :
A melody is like seeing someone for the first time.
Physical attraction.  Sex.
Alex :
I so get that.
Sophie :
But then, as you get to know the person, that's the lyrics. 
Their story, who they are underneath. 
It's the combination of the two that makes it magic.

我想,這就是歌曲之所以能觸動心靈的原因來吧。




在情人節的一天,送上喜愛的歌曲給所有我愛及愛我的人。無論你是有愛、無愛、被愛、懂愛、怕愛、錯愛、等愛、信愛、忘愛、大愛,都要緊記自己都不愛,怎麼相愛,怎麼可給愛人好處。做甚麼也好,別為著得到讚賞,你要強壯到底,再去替對方設想,時刻要懂得慰藉自己愛護自己,但說到底,最實際都是好好進睡


請不要灰心 你也會有人妒忌 你仰望到太高 貶低的只有自己
別盪失太早 旅遊有太多勝地 你記住你髮膚 會與你慶祝鑽禧

lalala 慰藉自己 開心的東西要專心記起
lalala 愛護自己 是地上拾到的真理
寫這高貴情書 用自言自語 作我的天書
自己都不愛 怎麼相愛 怎麼可給愛人好處
這千斤重情書 在夜闌盡處 如門前大樹 沒有他倚靠 歸家也不必撇雨

請不要哀傷 我會當你是偶像 你要別人憐愛 請安裝一個藥箱
做甚麼也好 別為著得到讚賞 你要強壯到底 再去替對方設想

拋得開手裡玩具 先懂得好好進睡
深古都攀過後 從泥濘重到這不甘心相信的金句

寫這高貴情書 用自言自語 作我的天書
自己都不愛 怎麼相愛 怎麼可給愛人好處
這千斤重情書 在夜闌盡處 如門前大樹 他不可倚靠 歸家也不必撇雨

我要給我 寫這高貴情書 用自言自語 作我的天書
自己都不愛 怎麼相愛 怎麼可給愛人好處
憑著我這千斤重情書 在夜闌盡處 如門前大樹 沒有他倚靠 歸家也不必撇雨